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Good morning, CH D. Welcome to paediatric perspectives. This is where we are looking at children's health challenges with a different perspective. One that includes critical thinking, and one that's not afraid to give you the honest truth. We have very important special guests because of that requirement. And today, we're going to cover the defender, I want to highlight this online, most relevant online journal, I think in the world covering CHD, COVID, Big Pharma tech, chemical, energy, food and legal aspects. Of course, my segment is focusing on pediatrics. We're in the medical world. And my guest today is Bob Sears. Welcome, Bob. Bob Sears M.D. 1:00 Hey, thanks, Paul. Thanks for having me on. Dr. Paul 1:03 It's so great to have you. For the audience. I just want you to know I'm asked all the time, where do I go for good information? And especially regarding vaccines, it's so difficult where to know where to go? Well, one place I always went to, from the time this book came on, is Dr. Bob Sears book, The vaccine book, which you just edited in 2022. To include COVID. Bob Sears M.D. 1:27 Yeah, it's it's been my, my life's passion to inform people, Paul and give them an objective look at vaccines, so they can make an educated decision. And as you know, vaccine, vaccines are always changing, the diseases are changing. They come out with new vaccines. Yeah. So I've been very happy that I've been able to update my book along the way. And you know, and including adding a whole entire new I think 25 Page chapter just on the code COVID vaccine alone, so that people up to date information. Thank Dr. Paul 1:59 you for doing that. My other chief resources, actually the defender, and you might go what? Well, it's searchable. So I get questions all the time. I'll take an example HPV, so human papilloma virus that's been supposedly linked with cervical cancer, but the vaccine is one that's fairly problematic. And so patients ask or before I'm retired, now, I don't diagnose or give medical advice, but information, where do you get it? You just go into the defender, and you click on HPV vaccine, and boom, you've got a wealth of resources with hyperlinks. It's incredible. I mean, you'll learn that the HPV vaccine has no effect in reducing cancer rates. And that vaccination is actually associated with an increased cancer rate. What? That's crazy. What do you think about that, Bob, just to hit you off the top with something kind of obscure? Bob Sears M.D. 2:53 Yeah, you know, HPV vaccine is super interesting, Paul, what I find fascinating is is the one of the obstetricians who helped research and did early development on the HPV vaccine and was involved in testing it and seeing how well it worked on her patients. And because because that's the kind of doctor that would deal with HPV issues is is an OBGYN. And even she came out online with with videos explaining that this vaccine was not researched properly in a way that really demonstrated whether or not it prevented cancer. And that's the whole purpose of the vaccine. And even she admitted that, that we did not achieve that in our research before the FDA approved this vaccine. And the other thing that that I find interesting about this particular disease and vaccine is this disease is completely preventable, Paul, and a lot of times you think maybe a vaccine is going to be really important. If the whole population is completely at its at that diseases, mercy, say we have no way to prevent a certain infection. And and we want a vaccine to help prevent, you know, protect us from it. That's that's worthy of consideration. But when you have a disease that is 100%, preventable, through making smart new life decisions, then that vaccine in my book, literally becomes less important. In fact, you know, young adults out there, you have to practice to safe sexual practices, you know, you know, your whole adult, you know, young adult life, and you have to prevent, you know, HIV infection, other sexually transmitted infections, HPV, hepatitis B, got to prevent all kinds of things. So if you're making smart decisions of preventing all of those infections, then you're also going to be preventing HPV. So if you're going to make smart decisions, you wouldn't need this vaccine. So that's another thing I tell the teenagers in my practice when they're asking me questions about this is you're not at this diseases mercy like you are maybe some other infections, you can make smart choices and this particular vaccine, Paul has a not a very good looking side effect profile. Dr. Paul 5:19 I was gonna bring that up Bob Sears M.D. 5:21 just can be devastating to poor young teenagers, especially teenage women, Paul, and so we have a risk profile that doesn't look good for completely preventable disease. To me. Parents need to consider that before they give their teenagers this vaccine. Dr. Paul 5:38 Yep, I couldn't agree more. I never carried that vaccine in my office because I just saw that it was highly dangerous and so ineffective. And then I had two teenagers just what you're describing, they were both girls, top students and athletes who came into my office with difficulty walking and neurologic stuff, weird stuff. They were really struggling brain fog as well. And after months and months, they've seen every specialist in town. I finally just baffled I asked one of them. You didn't get any vaccines, did you? Because there was nothing on my record about vaccines. And she goes, Oh, yeah, I got the vaccine HPV at school, the mom's mouth drops open you what she didn't know. And this happened twice. And and just devastating their health, it was ruined. Which, you know, that's just another whole story, which actually, let's segue into that. Because the defender had an article recently about parents were taking on the Philadelphia health officials to overturn a law that was allowing kids to get vaccines without parent consent, which is exactly what happened to these two girls in my practice. And I don't know, have you? Do you have similar laws in California? And what do you think about kids as young as 11 being able to make health decisions without their parents knowledge? Bob Sears M.D. 7:00 Yeah, Paul, we do have a law in California that allows children to seek medical care. I think it's 12 and older. For any issue regarding sexuality or sexually transmitted infections. So HPV vaccine, any any type of you know, OBGYN care, teenagers in our state are entitled to that kind of medical care without their parents consent. And and I in when it comes to vaccination, you know, I very much oppose that for the very reason that you just said, Paul, yeah, sometimes when there's a complication, and the parents don't know that their child got vaccinated, that can delay the appropriate medical care. Plus, honestly, teenagers, for the most part, are probably not being given the proper informed consent when it comes to being vaccinated against HPV. Yeah, Dr. Paul 7:57 I mean, we have a hard enough time spending a half an hour with parents to go over proper informed consent, the real risks and the negligible benefits oftentimes, and we know that kids aren't getting that. And so there's, there's all that peer pressure for them to conform. And, you know, don't you want to do your part for society? And here's some free donuts. I mean, it's ridiculous, right? What they did, they showed us with COVID. Ya know that that's just something horrible. So I want to pivot to something that's also been in the news and covered, Do vaccines really reduce other infections? I mean, you have a practice that's largely unvaccinated. And so I would guess if if vaccines were preventing infection, and you have an unvaccinated population, you must be seeing a lot of infections. Bob Sears M.D. 8:50 And I am not seeing a lot. I certainly see some Paul. Of course, I think everyone sees a lot of flu every year because the vaccine doesn't really prevent the spread of the flu. It just makes maybe the elderly feel a little less sick when they catch the flu. But you see a lot of flu Of course, I see whooping cough because that vaccine does not prevent transmission, either. I see some chickenpox still. I see some cases of pneumonia. I see rotavirus, of course. But I can say, Paul, I have not had a single patient in my 25 years of Pediatrics be what I would call harmed by any of these diseases. Every case that I've seen of a vaccine targeted disease that a child caught and they were not vaccinated against it. Every single case I've seen they've all been mild or easily treatable. I've had to have a few kids go into the hospital where they needed, you know, IV antibiotics or needed some hospitalized type of treatment, but they all did fine. No one's been harmed. And we're talking 25 years of Pediatrics. Paul were in the office in the three county area, you know, LA County, Orange County and San Diego, and then four counties, you know, the inland empire where I live, I get, you know, 10s of 1000s of patients from all over these four counties. I'm my mind is the office where they come to if they don't want vaccines, so I'm seeing all the unvaccinated kids, not a single harmed child from an infectious illness in 25 years. And to me that I'm so blessed by that, because that would be tragic if I had, you know, a patient that was severely harmed. But to answer your question, if unvaccinated children were going to be dying, left and right from those diseases, I would be seeing it, Paul, you would be seeing it, we both have been seeing it our entire careers, and we're not Dr. Paul 10:55 right. So what we are seeing folks is plenty of vaccine injury or vaccine effects. Because this is the other thing. The establishment and the pediatricians I don't think they're aware, or at least most I don't think are aware of how chronic disease in general is associated with being highly vaccinated. But you're right, I didn't see a single death from a vaccine targeted I love the way you use that, because we often will say vaccine preventable diseases. Well, most of these diseases are not prevented by vaccines. The vaccines are not, as you pointed out earlier, doing much on that side of things, we are seeing all the side effects. Before we're done, we're going to chat, don't don't click off, folks. We're going to chat about how to protect your child if they need to be hospitalized and how to choose a trustworthy doctor. But before we get to that, also in the news, and this is something that really caught my attention. So the defender covered this malaria vaccine for babies in Cameroon. They're the first country there in Africa to roll out a malaria vaccine. Now a little background on my experience with malaria. I grew up in Africa. I was four years old when my parents moved to Rhodesia at the time now Zimbabwe, and my dad caught malaria on one of his trips. I did a medical vaccine campaign of all things. When I was in medical school, a team of us went into Sierra Leone way into the interior hiked up into the mountains, and we were giving polio. And every single person we encountered in Sierra Leone had chronic malarial infections. I mean, it was a big deal. I got to palpate spleens on just about everybody, because with malaria, you get an enlarged spleen. So the thought of having a vaccine that perhaps could, you know, stop that kind of suffering because they, they would have fevers every other day, and I just feel miserable, and just begging for Motrin or Tylenol or some way to get some relief. I would be all for it. But here's the problem, folks, they've been trying to get a malaria vaccine for quite a long time. And so they're rolling out GSK is virgin. I liked the name. It's clever, most grix Mosquito RyX. Yeah, let's get rid of that mosquito. The problem is it doesn't get rid of the mosquitoes. They're all flying around carrying malaria. And that vaccine, I pulled the package insert for it. It's at best 30% effective, which is in a vaccine world, that's basically uneffective, you will not even make a dent on the malaria that's going around. And of course, they're only targeting babies and young children. So everybody else still carries malaria. The mosquito bites the person who has malaria and transmits it to the next person make matters worse, the vaccine gives protection for a very short period of time months is what it looks like from reading that package insert. And then the really scary part, no safety studies that really matter. And it looks like chances are there'll be increased all cause mortality. And that just speaks to the problem with vaccine trials in general. Anyway, Bob, I just curious if you have a thought about that. Thought about vaccine trials? Bob Sears M.D. 14:00 Oh, yeah. I mean, I Well, I have lots of thoughts about vaccine trials, Paul. But yeah, I don't really speak much towards malaria, because that's a little outside of my wheelhouse as it is for pretty much every US pediatrician. So I'm glad to hear your experience on it. Paul on. What I find interesting is, is some of the vaccines we use here in the United States for infants were approved with with little to no safety or even efficacy research in children. In fact, the best case, example is the flu shot. This just kills me when when the FDA first approved the flu vaccine and children and I saw that very first product insert that describe the research 25 children were studied. You're given the flu vaccine and were studied for efficacy when before the FDA approved that vaccine for children and in one state He did that. And then it's off to the races and they can run with it. People assume that there's a lot of research done on something before it's approved and children. And that is often not the case. And it's often not the case with our own FDA. And I think people need to do their own research when it comes to scrutinizing how the FDA approves these things. Dr. Paul 15:23 Yeah, no, absolutely. And before we move on to those hot topics at the end, speak a little bit you've written a vaccine book and done a an update with the COVID. Chapter COVID changed the world, I think, for a lot of people, and hopefully it woke up a lot of people, because the fact that the CDC ended up recommending that vaccine on the childhood schedule, adding it to start at six months of age, with what data you've studied this what what's going on, what do you think, What should parents do about the COVID Vat vaccine because they listen to the news that they're supposed to rush out and get it? Bob Sears M.D. 16:03 Right, right. Well, how long is your show? Paul, I could talk about this all day, I'm gonna say several things. First of all, I'm in my vaccine book, how much I love the defender is I actually put children's health defense as as a resource in the COVID chapter, because I said, Hey, things are constantly changing with COVID. And if you want to stay up to date, here's one of the resources that I love, that will give you the latest headlines and a new new, anything new, you need to know when it comes to COVID, or the COVID. Vaccines, children's health defense, so I greatly do appreciate them. Um, what I find shocking, Paul is still in 2024, the FDA has not approved any COVID vaccine for children under 12. Yet, the CDC has placed it on our recommended vaccine schedule for every child six months and older. Now, this isn't, you know, 2021 or 2022. Paul, we're now in 2024. The FDA has had years now to evaluate this vaccine and children and come up with with either an approval or no approval, but it's still just exists under emergency use authorization with no full FDA approval. And I would like to ask, you know, how the CDC feels like they can put it on their schedule, without that approval, given how much time we've had? And I don't know the answer to that question. I would maybe maybe, you know, but I guess I'm just putting that out there to the audience, as another reason why you need to do your own research. You can't always trust what the FDA or the CDC are going to tell you when it comes to vaccine policy, because they don't always do the research on this stuff. Dr. Paul 17:53 Yeah, I watched some of the a CIP meeting where they were making this decision. So within the CDC, they've got a committee that basically supposed to study and then make recommendations. And you and I have watched this every year it happens. They, each year, they come out with a new pediatric schedule. And I was just horrified that they were rubber stamping this COVID job for six months and up with no safety data. Absolutely none. And in fact, the data that was presented was very carefully done to exclude all the harm we now know exists. So yeah. Bob Sears M.D. 18:31 And you know, it's interesting, if you look at the data, the data they published, they they're now saying, the fatality rate in COVID for children is about one for every 100,000 children. So thank you, thankfully, very low fatality rate, but the published risk of myocarditis and pericarditis as a side effect is about one in 10,000. Right, so you're accepting a vaccine, that's going to give you a 10 times higher risk of having a severe life altering cardiac side effects, you know, to protect you from a disease with one of the lowest fatality rates of all our infectious or infectious diseases when it comes to children. So that's why parents really need to look at the risk versus benefit and make their own decision on this. Dr. Paul 19:18 Yeah, I agree. And because we're going to run out of time, I want to pivot towards something that's become I wasn't aware of this really until COVID. How do we protect our children if they need to be hospitalized? I have seen situations where kids go into the hospital, completely unaware that there's any risk in walking through that er, and what what ends up transpiring is horrible. What's your take? What are you doing in your practice, to address this issue? Bob Sears M.D. 19:51 Well, Paul, I would agree with you that a lot of my patients really fear that scenario. They're so reluctant to go to the emergency room. He asked me, you know, should I tell them I'm not vaccinated? What do I tell them, and I always tell them to be honest. And, but, you know, Paul, I would love to hear what you have to say, because I too feel like my patients are at the mercy of the hospital doctors and medical staff in the hospital policies, because once they step into that, er, through out of my hands, I'm you know, even though I have privileges at some of the hospitals, I'm still not their doctor once they enter the hospital. And so I kind of felt that they are a little vulnerable. And I always try, I always will talk with the doctors there and try to make myself available to speak with the doctors and I'd say maybe that's perhaps the one thing parents can do is if you have a doctor, such as myself, or, or an open minded doctor who you've trusted, who's been following you all these years, have that doctor get on the phone with a hospital doctor and and open the to a you know, line of communication, so that the hospital feels better. If the hospital knows you're in the hands of the doctor who will see you and be involved in your care, then they feel much better about the choices. If you if you walk in there acting like you don't like doctors, you don't trust doctors, and and they think, Oh, well, do you even have a doctor, now they're even more worried about you, then then that could lead to some more some more challenges for you. So I think, have your doctor communicate effectively with the hospital, so they know you're in someone's hands. And and now even though I have different vaccine policies in my office, and most of my patients don't vaccinate, I still will come across as a completely regular mainstream doctor, you know, because I am, when it comes to a lot of pediatric issues and pediatric medical care, I will present myself that way to the hospital staff will have their colleagues are calling discussion. And if that hospital doctor can have a nice colleague to colleague discussion with your doctor over the phone about your medical care, then they will feel much better. And I think that's probably the key is having your doctor willing to have that communication with them. Because I'm not like a, you know, a granola eating, you know, you know, you know, never any medication type of doctor in my office, nothing wrong with granola, really, I'm like a regular classically trained doctor, I do things, you know, in mainstream medical way for the most part. So I know how to how to have that conversation with that hospital. And so your doctor would be able to do that for you as well. Yeah. Dr. Paul 22:39 So the trick is finding more Bob Sears in the country, because you're absolutely right, we need to have our main doctor or at least a doctor who's who knows our child who can play that role that you play, that keeps the hospital team from just going rogue. The other thing I would add to that is don't go alone. So you know, the hospitals if they learn you're under vaccinated or not vaccinated at all, there's a lot of bullying that goes on you. And I've seen this in our practices, the stories that come back, but if you go with somebody who's versed enough, in this whole topic, and can be your support person, really, yeah, you don't want to be alone against the whole team that just keeps coming in and hammering you. And if you have a good doctor, you can often stay out of the hospital period, you can even stay out. So that's the other thing, you know, stay in close contact with, with your provider. I'm sure you've kept many a person out of the ER by just being available to walk them through their concerns. Bob Sears M.D. 23:40 Yeah, so no, I also tell my patients don't have a vaccine argument with the hospital staff, you know, it's not like you're going to convince them you're right. You're never going to convince them, I tell my patients to respectfully Listen, say, you know, thank you for that information, you know, I'll definitely consider it and consider it, you know, take the information, listen and say, you know, thank you for, you know, bringing this to my attention, I have more to think about, I will definitely you know, think about what you're telling me I'll I'll talk more with my doctor about it. And you know, because you're not you're not in the hospital because you didn't vaccinate, and most hospitals probably wouldn't even give you vaccines while your child is severely ill, at least anyway. So it's not like you're gonna be faced with that decision in the hospital. So you really don't have to come to any conclusions with the argument. You really just have to be a respectful patient, treat your medical staff with respect, they'll treat you with respect hopefully, and tell them that you'll honestly consider you know, the information they're giving you. Yeah, good. Game. Dr. Paul 24:46 Good reminder, we need to be respectful. Last question, we're gonna wrap this one up. How do I choose a trustworthy doctor? If I'm looking for a pediatrician or pediatric care? What What thoughts do you have on that one? Bob Sears M.D. 25:01 That is a great question. Um, you know, Paul, I feel like there's, there's a shift in medicine that I'm sure you've seen where a lot of doctors such as myself, are no longer operating under medical insurance contracts, because I honestly couldn't survive as a business person trying to provide great pediatric care under insurance contracts. So when I took myself outside of insurance contracts, I was no longer beholden to them at all, I no longer had to shorten my medical visits or limit the amount of time I could spend with people, I wasn't trying to meet their, you know, healthy children, 2000 guidelines, you know, trying to make sure all their patients are up to speed on their vaccines, I was able to just make, you know, wise medical decisions with the family without the business aspect to it. So I would say, for the most part, even though a lot of pediatricians and doctors out there, who don't take insurance, a lot of them probably do really promote vaccines, and like giving vaccines and they like following the CDC schedule, but I would say for the most part, they're also going to be more open minded people who are more there to serve you. versus the other way around, you know, if, if you're seeing an insurance doctor, their mindset is a lot, you know, they're a customer of the insurance company, you know, and I'm kind of working for the insurance company. So, you know, they're, they're kind of there to be my patient. Whereas what I like to see, as I'm your doctor, outside of insurance, I'm here to serve you. And I'm going to respect you and honor your choices. So I think, you know, for the most part, if you find a doctor outside of that, that insurance machine, you probably get a lot farther, but you're after going to be willing to pay for that. Understanding you have to pay a little more for for good medical care. But honestly, that's what you're looking for. And you'll probably be glad that you did it. Yeah, Dr. Paul 27:06 you make a good point, I my office took insurance. And that created all the problems I had, because I wasn't meeting quality standards. I mean, you're supposed to have all your two two year olds fully vaccinated by age two, you're supposed to have 70% of your teenagers have gotten the HPV vaccine, ethically, and morally, I couldn't do any of those things. So my vaccine rate wasn't zero. But for fully vaccinated, it was pretty close to zero. So you lose all sorts of financial incentives, and you get dropped from certain insurance plans. It's just a spiraling. business wise, you can't do it. So I like your idea, find people who aren't who are not beholden to, to pharma, and they're not beholding to insurance companies. But for those of you watching who just economically, you're stuck with the insurance you have, and you have no extra money in your pocket. This thought I have and you can add to this, if you have an idea, make some phone calls. I mean, you may have to call every single office that's within 60 Miles driving distance from where you live, to find an office where they will allow you to do have full informed consent and to make decisions for yourself as opposed to kicking you out. So you just call and say, Do you kick people out who don't vaccinate? If it's Yep, you have to vaccinate next onto the next, right. There are people out there that are navigating this and you just have to look Bob Sears M.D. 28:36 right and other great resources would be, for example, midwives in your area, would likely know who the go to pediatrician is, you know where you live, you can ask them, you can look at like holistically minded parent groups online or on social media. And ask, you know, ask those groups who they're seeing in their local area who's open minded? Dr. Paul 28:58 Yeah, your book used to have a list has that stayed up to date? Bob Sears M.D. 29:02 That list is still there, Paul, um, it's a they can they can find that list on my website. It's a It's semi up to date. It's basically a list of, we call it vaccine friendly doctors. Basically people who have emailed me over the years saying, hey, you know, I give vaccines in my office, and maybe I like vaccines, but I'm open minded about it. And I'm willing to see patients who are looking for a doctor who at least you know, will be open minded, so you'd like to check it on on my website. Certainly awesome. Dr. Paul 29:35 So that'd be another place to start and just start calling the offices that are near enough to you and see if indeed they will allow you to do whatever it is you want to do once you're informed. Bob, I thank you so much. You get the last word as Is there anything you'd like to say to the viewers here? Bob Sears M.D. 29:51 What I found over these years is I found writing is really a great passion of mine as it is of yours. I love it. Some of the books you've written, you know, the, the addiction spectrum as well as a great book that was read through that and found it very fascinating. Of course, I, I love your, your vaccine friendly plan books a lot of years almost is like a whole baby book about how to raise a baby naturally, you know, with some Vaccine Information added in as well. So I appreciate that I've found writing is probably what I like doing even more than spending time in the office. So over the years, over these last few years, I've written more books and in the vaccine arena, and so people can check them out on my website, of course. But you know, one of my favorite ones is actually a fictional book all about vaccines, it's called a tale of two sides. And, Paul, you're actually one of the stars in that book, I will say, one of the main pediatricians in there, I kind of tailored him a little after you didn't give him the same name, but you can probably guess who it is. And then I've uh, I've actually just start just finished polishing off a new book, which was super fun to write. And I think I might be calling a Doctor Bob the versus the medical board. It's a fictional account of the last eight years of my life. And it had to be fictional because I wanted to present a whole world of what the medical board is like, an all the forces kind of working against me, because I don't know what they're doing. You know, you and I just know our side of the story. But I thought it'd be a little boring, just trying to tell my side of the story. So I have like my side of the story, intermixed with a fictional account of what a medical board might, you know, go about doing to take down a doctor such as you or me, and you're in that book to Paul. So yeah, you're welcome. Glad Yeah, that's not out yet. But it'll be on my website, and people can look for it. And you should write a book like that, Paul, if you haven't already. Dr. Paul 32:05 It's a full book for sure. Yeah. Thank you, Dr. Bob, you are always a wealth of information and knowledge, especially in this area of vaccines. And thank you for your courage to do everything you do and continue to do to inform our world about what's actually going on. Bob Sears M.D. 32:21 Right, you too, Paul, keep it up. Transcribed by https://otter.ai PDF:Text:Dr. Paul 0:05
Dr. Paul, welcome to with the wind science revealed. This one's not exactly science. This is an important episode. It's Valentine's Day DeeDee and I are going to share from our heart and from our souls about love. We're also going to update you on some history with the show and where it's going in the future. Enjoy the show Dr. Paul coming to you from the heart, you're going to hear in this Valentine episode Deedee. And I share a lot about love. I recently read a book by Gladys McGarry a life well lived, she wrote it at the age of 102. And the concept that I got from that that I had just never thought of that I wanted to share with you is about self love. But what to do when you don't feel like you can love yourself, or there's something holding you back. And you don't have somebody like a DD as you're going to see in this episode to reach out to can work with you and guide you and, and coach you to self love. And her approach was just amazing and simple. Basically, it was to visualize close your eyes and visualize what it is that's holding you back. And then put that out there and release it. And after you release it, you give yourself a hug. And she actually describes it, you put your arms around yourself and you just hug yourself as as firmly as you would like to be hugged for the situation of this release of whatever's holding you back. And I think we can do this as many times as we need to. And really love ourselves, forgive ourselves for whatever might be holding us back, forgive the people who may have harmed us or done things that made it very difficult for us to love ourselves. Because when we can forgive them as well forgive ourselves for whatever may have happened or in ability to get beyond it. We can start a new, we can love ourselves. And from there mazing transformations are possible. Dr. Paul here welcome to with the wind science revealed. I have a guest today who you all know pretty well. This is DD she's been by my side for so much of what's happened with this show. We want to start off by saying a big Happy Valentine's Day. DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 2:52 Happy Valentine's Day. Dr. Paul 2:53 Yep, this is airing on Valentine's Day. So we thought we've got to have a Valentine's show. And we're gonna get into that. And obviously, when we talk about Valentine's, we're going to talk about love. You have a love heart pillow, we have some Valentine's flowers. But before we get to that, and I think that's going to be kind of a fun, we are completely non scripted. So this is just from the heart and from the soul, if you will, we will skip from the heart. It'll just all right from the heart. Let me tell you a little update on our show. I've been asked by children's health defense to do a show for them in the morning. Good morning. CHD pediatric perspectives. So once a week that's going to air and the focus is all pediatrics. And they just notified me this recently that's kicking off. Probably one or two shows may have happened by the time you're seeing this on Valentine's Day. So check that out. But we're gonna continue this show. We're gonna go back to every other week as we used to when we started. Should we give a little history on how we started? Yes. DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 3:55 lit in case yeah, there's probably a lot of people that didn't see those first wonderful episodes, y'all. You miss some crazy stuff. Dr. Paul 4:04 I think that would be a good place to start. So it all started after I lost my license, which happened after I published a paper in the International Journal of Public Health that showed unvaccinated children in my practice, were far healthier than the vaccinated. I mean, we're talking four to eight times 400 to 800%. It was the information the medical board had asked for. We did it right. We published it. And within a few days after that was available online boom. I was without a license. It came as a shock. My practice had already been struggling due to intense pressure from the Medical Board, the Oregon Health Authority, some health insurance plans all over the vaccine issue. So what was I going to do? I thought I was actually I was driving some of you heard this story. I'm driving down the highway listening to against the wind by Bob Seger. I'm going yeah, that's the name of my show. We're gonna go against the when I felt like I was fighting a giant, you know, when you lose your license to a medical board that seems all powerful and in effect they are. It's like David and Goliath and, and I was running against the wind and I wasn't gonna roll over, I was gonna fight. So you were working with me at the time. And so you got to watch me film these episodes, the very early ones. DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 5:27 Actually, I didn't want to film them. I watched them. I joined I'm $1.99 member probably shouldn't say. Dr. Paul 5:35 Yeah, those of you who are members, thank you so much your support, actually, is the only reason we're able to continue this show. Yeah, DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 5:42 it really is. Yeah. So I just was watching shows, and we were coaching at the same time. At that time, I was just Dr. Paul's body worker, and wellness coach. And now you can take over. Dr. Paul 5:58 So I remember she was trying to coach me and say, you know, you're never gonna get your license back, if you have this attitude. Because I was like, I could never get it back. They're all powerful. It's a kangaroo court. And you came at me a couple, two, three times with that same loving message. And it's Valentine's Day, and this woman is very loving. And she said, well, with an attitude like that you're never gonna get your license back. And you know that when the truth is just there, it hit me like, she's right. I've known about being positive, I've generally been a positive person all my life, but I was down. I was that took me down the whole combo of my practice dying, it didn't die completely. It's still up and running with a whole new group of the same team that was there took it over. Thank goodness, thank you to that team, if you happen to see this episode. But it was a lot. And in honor of Valentine's Day, I'm just going to tell you that this wellness coach, who was coaching me, had a way of just guiding me through the process in a very loving way. But but she wasn't making any decisions for me, and I am so forever grateful for that. You had to ask me at least 100 plus times, well, what do you want, Paul? Because she never told me what to do or how to do it. But was just there, in a sense as a wellness coach, allowing me to love myself because I had drifted. I think from that I was pretty beat down and negative, which is not how I like to be or wanted to be. Well, there was another piece. I had become incredibly egotistical, but I wasn't aware of it. And so I'm like this spinning top in my old clinic going from room to room to room, nurse practitioners working with me for me. And I mean, I own the clinic, they work for me, and we work together as a team. But I would go in anytime they had a question. And I was like, boom, I had an answer. In retrospect, not always necessarily the perfect right answer, but I was. Yeah, I was all that. And you were able to help me see that things weren't all as I thought they were. And that process of waking me up and opening me up. That was a deep personal journey of my own. And I remember also, many times where I felt just take the some body work and I had some CrossFit injuries, and I would get some body work and just feel like Wow, you really you fixed me. And you hated that. Why did you hate that? DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 8:58 Because I'm not fixing you. And it's the same thing with a wellness coaching. It's the only one that can make any changes. The only one that can make any changes for ourselves is us. We have to want to and what I saw in him, and again, I was working on a lot of his patients, I had a lot of the referrals from the clinic. So I do pediatric bodywork and I saw what he how he was being and I just thought to myself, I don't see a soul. And again, just being who I was, I couldn't really say anything. But then the opportunity opened up when he was thinking he was going to lose everything. And you don't have to when things happen to you, it's you got to go down deep and that's when I realized wow, he can connect with his soul. And sometimes we need wellness coaches for that. Sometimes we see things that it's all we're going to do is go against the wind. And so when kind of stepping back when I watch the first episodes We had already done some wellness coaching on to not sound like you know more than everybody else, or to not be in this kind of an ego centered way of telling somebody what to do and that he knew better. It needs to be up to people to make their own decisions. So I'm watching these first shows. And I'm like, wow, or did you listen to any other coaching? So what happened though, was, as we're doing the coaching, he actually came in for a session and I said, you know, why don't we let people see all these changes you're making and your soul? And what about speaking from your heart? And so that's how, Dr. Paul 10:45 yeah, that's how I from the heart started. And then ultimately, we shifted pivoted to with the wind. Because when you're fighting, fighting, fighting, fighting, you're losing the power of everything that's behind you that that's uplifting and pushing you forward, which you all the viewers of this show are a big piece of that. And had you asked me back at the very beginning, what's your soul? Paul? I wouldn't have had an answer. I was that lost. It's like, oh, my gosh, I mean, I grew up in the church, not that the church is necessarily where you're gonna find your soul, by the way, but I was, I had loving parents. I mean, they parented in a in their own way, which, which had its own immense benefits. very goal oriented, I could say it was it was demonstrated for me, and I was really good at that. But somehow, I never got the kind of guidance or nurture that I needed. I'm not saying they weren't nurturing, they were amazing parents, but to get in touch with my soul. So that's been the joy and the gift of this journey for me, and some of you may have seen there's, there is a change in this whole guy. I certainly feel it, I know it, I love it. And that's part of what the show now is, is to be able to do everything we can to allow others, you, the viewers, the opportunity to take that journey of healing and getting in touch with your own soul. It's a beautiful thing. And in a sense, with that approach to life. Doesn't really matter what life throws at us. I mean, sure, it's nice when it's not all terrible, right, but how we respond if we're responding with love and responding soulfully it's a good life. It will DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 12:47 and you talked about when you're in the fight, you know, your fight, fight, fight, what happens. And if you remember that generally fight or flight is based on fear. We generally enter that state and our nervous system because we become fearful of something, become fearful of losing our license, we become fearful of losing somebody in our world. And that takes over. And it's, I think that's the thing we talk a lot about is that's a human response. And it's more than okay. But it's the soul that leads with love. It's the soul that comes forward, and allows you to not have fear. Because no matter what you believe in when you have faith, and for us, it's God, that that's what our souls connecting with. That's who we are. And when that leads forward, there's no fear. I'm not saying it's easy on sometimes that's why you need a wellness coach. But I don't do it for anybody. That's the thing I think to remember is and that's something you did, you would he would say to me, you know, thanks for, you know, fixing me Or, Wow, you did this and I'd have people say that and that's not okay, because it takes the power away from you. He did the work, he pushed himself, he connected with his soul, he allowed God to work through him, not me. Dr. Paul 14:01 She had to drill that in many times, because I just wasn't getting it. But it really hit me. If you have a doctor or a coach or a loved one who empowers you then you know what to do next time you're in trouble. Right if if you the way I used to doctor, you needed me right because I was the one fixing you i was the solution. I was providing the solutions. And you did it a whole different way your coaching and wellness approach it yes, you know, you can feel the love. This woman knows how to love but she's real clear. I'm not doing anything you're doing it. And that's so empowering. When you realize that that's actually true. It is actually true. We can heal ourselves. And it is actually for us to do and you you mentioned it or alluded to do it and that is self love that that is, I think that is the biggest struggle a lot of us had I, I, as successful as I was, I mean, here, I'm, you know, pediatrician run my office author, you know, I've had accolades and awards, blah, blah, blah. I didn't think I was all that great. Other than pretending. Right? And so even even people who you might think I've got it all going on, a lot of us struggle with self love, really, at the core, loving who you are. So, tell us a little more about that. How do we? DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 15:39 Well, working with kids, a lot of it is self confidence, right? And we always talk about how do we become confident in ourselves and believe in ourselves? Wow. It's love. If you don't love yourself, and how can you have confidence or believe in yourself? Right. And I think that was part of it with working with you is, here's this, you know, amazing pediatrician that everybody loves anytime we go anywhere, people will like plow me down to get. And it's everything you've done is so amazing. But it's that inner part of you and how loving you are. And people have said that so many times. Since then, is Wow, Dr. Paul has changed. Wow, he's just all those all those pieces about you. Everybody sees and notices and and what you do now for people is incredible, because it's coming from that place of love, can go a little off track. If you want to be self confident, and you want to believe in yourself, you have to start with loving yourself. If we don't love ourselves, then we cannot heal anything within ourselves. I believe that we have everything within us that we need to do and be anything we want to be. There's going to be circumstances in life that will stop you from certain things, there's going to be limitations to certain things. But as long as you love who you are, you will never lose that competence in yourself. You might have to backup change tracks, whatever it might be. But if you don't love yourself, there's really no way for anybody else to fully love you. Dr. Paul 17:21 That's how I feel. That was powerful. Thank you. You're welcome. You see, folks, this woman's amazing, she actually does wellness coaching kids first forever. So that is something you can you can tap into that as well I have sometimes witnessed from a distance will be in the office, and she's coaching in the other room. And I just overhear a little bit of her side of the coaching. And it's, I can tell it's transformative. And this could be with teenagers who are suicidal, struggling with whatever issues teenagers and even younger than teenagers, even a three year old three years old, oh my lord, there was a three year old who was so afraid so fearful, called herself baby, and would not leave her mother's side for a second. This poor child was was overwhelmed with anxiety 24/7. And in in one session, she's out playing on the pavement on the sidewalk coloring with Didi and and she comes in and says I'm a big girl. Oh my goodness. So it doesn't matter how old you are doesn't matter what your credentials she is working with, you know, other physicians, she's working, it doesn't matter. It's a gift you bring to the world. And on Valentine's Day, I certainly have to honor that ability of you to love at that level, your your openness to just hear you hear so well. When you're when you're working with people you hear and understand at a level I almost can't believe. But that's how you reach and connect in such a powerful way. So that's my Valentine's gift to all of you is this woman that you too can access her coaching. I'm great at talking about, you know, vaccines, pediatric topics that's in my wheelhouse. I coach on that as well. But if you've got deep emotional, psychological, mental, spiritual issues that maybe are holding you back, or maybe this self love thing is just, you can't seem to break from some bondages that maybe go back to early childhood or sometime in your childhood. Many of us weren't raised or had experiences that really rocked us to our core and we we went inside and we hid and we and we can't seem to break free. There's a solution for you. I'm looking at her. DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 19:51 And you do too. So what do you love most about kids first forever and should we explain what that is? I think we've said it a few times, but why don't we bring it because that's our big love and passion. And with the win with the wind is, is the show that really got going right. And we interviewed doctors and other people, but the together, we co founded kids first forever. And the point of that was to allow others to reach their highest expectation, their fullest growth, and putting kids first and whether that's the little girl inside of you, or raising our own children, it's something that's really, I'm really passionate about, how about you tell you what it means to you, you Dr. Paul 20:34 know, my entire career, it's been about kids. And I didn't even know that I was coaching parents coaching kids in the office a lot. And so now I'm, I've transitioned, I'm retired from the traditional medical practice, I'm not licensed, but I can coach I can still help parents help children move towards. And we talked about four things. This, this became really important. I as an MD, in my pediatric practice, I was mostly focused on physical. So you've got an ailment, you've got a physical problem, I'm going to do the assessment, diagnose and treat, right, the old way I was trained, although I must say over the decade or so towards the end, when I'm dealing with children with behavioral issues, ATD, ADHD, autism, anxiety, depression, I was taking a whole different stance on that it wasn't just diagnose and treat, you're really trying to get down to the core, but what you've helped introduce into my life and into the whole assessment program, and what we're doing with kids first, is the mental and spiritual, right, physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. And you might have a challenge that seems physical, let's say you're stressed, but its basis is in the mental, emotional or spiritual. And until that, that is sorted out, is the physical just doesn't get better, you can throw meds at it, you can throw almost anything at it. And if you haven't addressed that root cause, and oftentimes it goes back to that self love. So here on Valentine's Day, that is a focus to remind you that you are loved, you are lovable. And once you love yourself, you're going to be so free to love others. And if you're a parent, and you're struggling with this, don't wait. Get a hold of DD, get a hold of me, but I get older, if that's the struggle, because you're gonna free yourself to love your children in such a more beautiful, deeper way. So they grow up with self love, and freedom that comes from that, to be able to love the world, change the world. So on a small scale kids first forever is about changing the world, we do it one person at a time, we're going to do everything we can to make it more available to larger groups of people. But at this point, it's it's very individual, it's a resource. Well, DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 23:09 and I think healing is individual. So I think that's part of it. But there are lots of things that have lots and lots coming up. We're gonna work on all kinds of things. But how about we talk about my favorite kind of love? Dr. Paul 23:23 What's that? Unconditional? DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 23:25 Do you want to tell me what unconditional love is? Dr. Paul 23:29 Well it's what the Word says. But doing it in real life is a whole different thing. So, you know, parents, you know, your children will do things that you wish they wouldn't do. When you have real unconditional love, you make it very clear always that your child is completely love. There's nothing wrong with them. There may be a behavior that needs to be addressed. And then even that there are ways to address it. I kids, my kids, if you're watching, I didn't do a really good job with this. I had there were too many of you know, I was oh my gosh, that was a little slip back into the old slip into the old power. You know, egotistically I'm good. You're the problem. No, you were never the problem. The we just, you know, we muddled through with 10 kids in the house. Well, we had one year with eight kids in the house. So there was 10 of us in the house. But it was it was awesome chaos. And at times not so awesome for you, my kids, and unconditional love. I think had I been in touch with my soul would have looked very different. So I think as as adults and as parents we really owe it to our children and to those in our world to love ourselves so completely and and conditionally and let go of the baggage and forgive ourselves for our past that we are free and fully available to all the people in our lives. But expand on unconditional love for us. DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 25:12 Okay? Well, it means that we don't put any conditions on how we love somebody. And if we love somebody, when we love somebody, and I think that's the piece is there's a lot of things like people think well, wait a second, though I'm supposed to love somebody, even if they're being mean to me. i We still always have to love ourselves. And yes, you can still love them, even if they're being mean to you. Do you let them continue to be mean to you know, there are things that are reasons that we aren't able to have somebody close in our life. There's reasons that parents and adults get divorced. There's reasons that relationships have to end or stop. But it doesn't stop us from loving that person. And I get that that's hard. And, and there are people that we may not, like, show love to all the time, if someone like somebody asked me one time, oh, so you unconditionally love everybody in your life, even the people that hurt you and I do. And someone and so the person asked me, so if somebody this is pretty extreme, y'all, this is like PG 17 stuff. If somebody murdered your child, you would still love them. I'm like, well, that's kind of crazy. But yes, I would. Would there be hate and anger and all those things that come with it? Would there be a lot of hurt. But I think the thing sometimes that we don't remember, like, what I go bring that person something when I go visit them in jail? No. But I would want to love them because something happened that allowed them to do something that was so awful. And I think we forget that sometimes. But out of most people's reactions that aren't loving and kind, there's something else there that happened to them that they weren't able to heal from. So if we allow ourselves to heal, and just to love. And what that really means is putting love forward, never letting love leave you internally, never letting your soul be anything but leading with love. We don't always have the greatest reactions. And it's known that I'm pretty bossy. And I boss a lot of people around, is that loving? Yes. Okay. I don't really have a problem with it. But the bottom line is there are behaviors and things we're going to do. And we don't have to love those behaviors. Like sometimes I'll say, I don't love you right now. But I like you. We tell our kids. But the bottom line is that's the thing is we may not like what's happening. But we'll always and always should love ourselves, love our children and everyone around us. If everybody in this world could come from that place, you know, it'd be a whole different world, a different world. Yeah, there wouldn't be worse and things. Yeah, but it's not that way. But the way we stop ourselves from being in pain, with everything that's happening around us, is to do our best to leave with love forward. One thing I'd like to add, if you don't mind, Dr. Paul 28:18 go for it is that DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 28:21 with the four areas that kids first forever focuses on the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual. I've heard people say, you know, we should have, we should try and have all those areas in balance. The bottom line is, balance is one of those weird things that I hear of is that not sometimes we're, we're really physically sick, and you need to just rest and that's what you take care of. So maybe, you know, in other areas a little out of balance, I think what happens is as long as we're connected, and we have those areas living harmoniously. Dr. Paul 28:56 I set it right, that was good. And DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 28:59 within. Within that harmony comes maybe the balance that people want to see, but I hear that all the time. Anything in moderation is good. Well, I'm allergic to gluten and so there's no moderation with that. So I think that's the point I'm trying to get at is that we need to understand that we're not maybe always imbalanced, but we can always be loving and kind to ourselves. Dr. Paul 29:26 That's amazing, isn't it? So I've always admired some of the amazing individuals historically, Jesus Gandhi, there are others who seemed to be able to do that unconditional love completely. And in fact, I had one of my adopted sisters who at the end, when I was in her presence, it was like, wow, goosebumps just overcome with it was love. It was God it was spirit. It was amazing. I thought I must be sitting With Jesus, and she passed away two weeks later and and had basically left her children to me who became my children. They were my nephews and nieces. Prior to that, that was a time you know, Uncle Paul became dad sort of pops all sorts of names. But anyway, the point was, she loved as did Jesus from everything I can tell, as did Gandhi from people who knew him towards the end. Completely didn't matter if you were a murderer, or whatever, as you pointed out, you don't condone the behavior, you may not even like the person that wouldn't be somebody would choose to hang out with what you love. And when you can come from that place. Boy, that's, that's a dream and hope of mine. I'll probably be working on it for at least this lifetime, if not a whole bunch more. But it's certainly something that we on Valentine's Day, can wish for all the world and for you. And so DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 31:02 from just Valentine's Day, well, Today's Dr. Paul 31:05 Valentine's Day, but every day, every moment, if we're leading and coming from that place, what a glorious life it is, what a beautiful place where I want to thank you for being in my life, because you also most of the time, exude this incredible love. And oh, DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 31:28 I always have love. I just like I said, I'm Bossy, Bossy sometimes. So I want to kind of add something to that. If you don't mind, please. Um, first of all, can I have the flowers after the shows? Absolutely. Okay. Second of all, um, I think that's the thing is, we, Valentine's Day, a lot of people will say, is a Hallmark holiday. And I've had people in my life before, it's like, I don't need a date and tell you when I love you or give you gifts or things. And I used to think well then pick a day. It doesn't have to be February 14, I'll take any day. But I think that's the thing is that we, we need to be that way all the time. We don't need to bring all of equal to get roses all the time. But no, I think the point is that, that love that's inside of you. That's an every day, every moment thing. But we don't ever want to negate what's happening that doesn't allow us to act lovingly all the time. There are things that hurt and are painful. But it's taking those steps back and giving ourselves time, emotionally and mentally and spiritually, to absorb what we need to do in that moment to get back to being loving. But yes, I love Valentine's Day. I just think it's really cool. Dr. Paul 32:55 We were we were talking before we got on, on camera about what were our Valentine's Day experiences. Like because I grew up in Africa as a missionary kid, there was no Valentine's Day, there was no Hallmark store. There were a lot of celebrations that just didn't happen there just life was what it was day to day. Then, of course, as I grew up, then moved to the states for college and beyond you, you realize that this is an opportunity. And we were reflecting how it's different for guys and girls a little bit. I at least I learned it was the time if you have somebody you care about this would be a really good day to get a card and some flowers probably be a really bad move not to so you know if you're watching this and you forgot somebody, it's not too late. DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 33:45 Depends on if they are if they're seeing the show on February 18 Dr. Paul 33:48 Oh, true if you're seeing that as it comes out live, share Yeah. But DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 33:54 you said something is that and I want to make sure that people understand too. It's not always a male female thing. But generally in a relationship there's one person that's more loving, and seems to be the responsible person for doing the sweet things right the one that is generally maybe a more outside the home that's doing the work that thinks the person at home taking care of the kids no matter whether they're male or female, none of that matters. But I think that's the thing is it's not putting your pressure putting pressure on yourself like for me well written beautiful cards that tell someone how much you love. Love them that's just as important although I gotta tell you the roses are really pretty he brought them in for this set but I think I'm gonna take them home. Dr. Paul 34:40 Yes you are DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 34:41 yeah go ahead. Well know back when he was talking about was the experiences that we that we had, like mine was different. I grew up you know, in school, we brought little Valentine's to each other. We had school party for Valentine's Day and everyone was supposed to give gifts. Yeah, Dr. Paul 35:07 actually that that was true for my kids. I raised my kids here in the States and Valentine's Day, the parents would have to make sure you had a Valentine for each kid in the class. But that was nice. That was fair. You told me a story about when you were in high school, it was pretty brutal. DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 35:22 It was only brutal. If you were me. There are a few people I won't mention any names, but it wasn't so brutal. Dr. Paul 35:27 Brutal for So describe it. DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 35:31 So a lot of the high schools and it's it's not even just Valentine's Day, but especially on Valentine's Day, for a fundraiser for the student body, they would sell valid grams. And you know, our holograms all the different things for all the different holidays. And for Valentine's Day, you could buy a rose or a chocolate or a card. Because we didn't in in homeroom you didn't in high school, you didn't have to buy one for everyone, right? So at lunchtime, or after school, you could go and you could buy these for about a month before. Wow. It may have maybe only been two weeks, it seemed like forever to me. And then on homeroom. On Valentine's Day, they would deliver him to those kids, because you you knew where they all will Dr. Paul 36:16 see where this is going. didn't get any problems being proud. DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 36:23 Yeah, so my sophomore year is brutal. Dr. Paul 36:28 That's brutal point where I did figure out how to stop. DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 36:32 By our soft fire junior year, a bunch of us were just waiting for each other so that we would all get some. But I think the point of that was that we we need to be very, very loving to everybody. But again, the world's not fair. There are people that are going to just get more love than others, I guess or at least more valid Graham's. Oh, we should call all the high schools and tell him not to do it anymore. Dr. Paul 36:59 That's an idea. What you just shared reminded me of one of my youngest son be befriended a child in his class. This was around fourth, fifth grade, maybe six, who had no friends at all. I mean, this was a child on the spectrum. He was a little quirky, a little odd, and was bullied and tormented in early middle school. Yeah, it was early middle school. And he just became friends with him. And actually, you have a writer story like that too. And I think, you know, if you've raised kids who have that kind of a heart to realize that it isn't fair for some of our children that they are bullied and that can be really destructive. And these are the kids who sometimes end up suicidal, they just don't have a way out. And as parents we have to be very vigilant to protect our kids. I mean, sometimes you move schools you do whatever it takes, but if we can raise our kids to be that kind and loving that goes a long way to just spreading love in the world DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 38:09 well and in sharing with sharing with our kids that are bullied like right or wise or sharing with our kids that you know some of these kids is remind reminding them that it's just as important to be as loving to those kids because again, there's a reason we don't just you know come out of the womb going well I'm just going to be a bully for the rest of my life. That's not what happens and that lack of love that so many kids get does affect them some some come out okay, so I'm do fine. Others like you said, they're suicidal or, even worse, we have that the chaos and the devastation in our schools. I believe that's what school shootings are. And I think that's the thing is, I think, I think Valentine's Day really is an important day to remember that there is a lack of love in our world, there is a lack of depth of understanding and compassion. And so raising our children that's kids first forever is if we notice something's happening with our kid, let's help them Let's heal them. Let's allow them to learn to be loving to everybody. Yep. Dr. Paul 39:16 Well, folks want to thank you again for if you're still watching this. You've made it through a long series of love lessons. And from our hearts to yours. We wish you a Happy Valentine's Day and may the whole year be filled with love. DeeDee Hoover LMT, PMT, CCT 39:32 Agreed. Hey, everyone, it's me DD coming to you from my soul. You just saw a wonderful episode with myself and Dr. Paul on love for Valentine's Day. So I want to talk about love. We talked about unconditional love. Love is I love love People always say what do you love most about the world? I love love. I love that because we've been when we say the words I love, what we're saying is that there's a part inside of us that's happy and joyful, right? And sometimes I'll hear someone say, Well, you know, I'm not loving love right now love hurts. Made me think. So I stepped back, I went into my soul. And I thought, why would love hurt? Well, I realize that when you love something, especially unconditionally, and wholeheartedly, and with everything that you are, and maybe that love isn't returned, or, for instance, this person that you've loved, that's loved you, and they die. Yeah, that hurts. It's not the love that hurts, though. It's the loss. And I think when we can see that and see that love is nothing but healing and powerful and forward moving. That if we get into our soul, and we go to that place, and know that, yeah, maybe we lost that person. And even if they just simply left our lives, and a relationship that's ended, the love is still powerful. I don't believe that it's the love that it's hurting. I believe that it's the relationship and the circumstances around it. Because in my soul, love is powerful. Why is it powerful, it's because of my connection to a higher power. It's because my soul is so connected to God. And just like so many people out there, no matter what your belief is, it still comes from a place of love. And I hear that all the time that God is love. Children, when they're born, they're nothing but love. There's little bitty souls in there. That that love is so powerful. Sometimes when I'm working with infants, I can feel it, I feel the love, I feel that perfection, that joy, that connection. They can't talk yet. But I feel it. And I think that's the thing that's most important to me today. And even with our our Valentine's Day special and talking about love, every day and everything we do, if we allow our soul to lead and be loving, it really does change things. It heals things. It brings down walls. I believe it can end wars, I believe it can allow people to be everything they want to be when they lead from their soul, and they lead from love. My wish for everybody is that you get to feel that, that you get to connect enough within yourself, that you feel your own self love. That it's becomes overwhelming. Sometimes I'll sit and I'll think about all the people I love and how much the people in my life mean to me. Because their interactions with me touches my soul. Love touches my soul and being able to love unconditional, I love it. I love being able to love people for just who they are. Yeah, I'm not perfect measure today, I can be bossy. That's not my soul though. Those are those human things that happen. But I love it when my soul leads. And when I allow everyone around me to feel loved. That comes back. Thank you for watching. Dr. Paul 43:58 I look forward to running together with the wind at our backs, revealing the science that gives clarity in our world that's full of propaganda and misinformation. Visit our website, doctors and science.com Sign up. Donate if you can. Your support makes a difference. And let's make this the weekly show the world has been waiting for. Thanks for watching. I'm Dr. Paul. Transcribed by https://otter.ai |
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